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Wednesday, August 15, 2012

It gets harder and harder for him everyday



My 101 year old father having his breakfast after his normal stressful and restless night.  A record of his last 2 nights went as follows:

13 August:  Woke up (to ease himself) at 9.30pm, 10.30pm, 12.00am, 1.30am, 2.30am, 4.15am, 4.50am, 5.25am, 6.00am
14 August:  Woke up at (to ease himself) at 10.05pm, 10.30pm, 12.00am, 1am, 1.55am, 2.10am, 4.10am, 5.15am, 6.00am

Even though I was in attendance he almost fell down several times. It is so sad to see him taking like ages to get from point A to point B within  the same room, most of the time stubbornly refusing to be supported.  As it gets harder and harder for him everyday we feel more and more helpless and distressed.  

2 comments:

  1. what about persuading uncle to use portable urinal? or wearing pampers?

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    1. Thanks for your concern Saw. Being a proud man he has refused the pampers,believing he can still do it on his own.

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Our Father's 100th Birthday celebration on 24 July 2011

Our Father's 100th Birthday celebration on 24 July 2011






I am 100 today!









Some happy memories 15.7.2007


Sister Wan Lan in her splendorous Kebaya nyonya

Zuraida, my Secretary who was with me for 6 years when I was still working in the Government, accompanied by her son

My sister Wan Lan on the extreme left standing with me and my closest friends of several decades (Meilina to my left, Esah sitting left and Norhayati sitting right)

Tan Sri Arshad and Tan Sri Shahrizaila arriving for the reception

Brother-inlaw Ching

Nephew Meng, his girlfriend Jane, Sister Wan Lan and good friend Ivy helping out with guest registration

Offering tea to grandfather Woon Sang Chew, as a mark of love and respect

My good friends Prof Noor Hadjar from UiTM and Hearry from MAS

The entrance to the hall

me in the middle and cousin in law Anita Woon

Fedelia and her best friends, Yin Lee and Amalia, the three pretty flower girls

Daughter Fedelia in a pensive mood

The main Table

The pelamin

Whimsical flower girl niece Sara

Nephew Meng and girlfriend Jane

Good friend Wan Zawiah's daughter Nadia contributing a song

My three children L-R: Second son Farouk, only daughter and youngest Fedelia and elder son Feris