Our broadest smiles

I met this Hokkien speaking woman (about 60+) several days ago. She does not speak English, just only the Chinese dialect Hokkien. Here goes a translation of our conversation:

Hokkien woman: Hey... you look familiar...I think I have seen you before. Are you from Parit Buntar?

Me: I lived in Parit Buntar for 10 years. Maybe we went to the same school?

Hokkien woman: School? Cannnot be. I have never been to school.

Me: Were you in the Chinese primary school near the river?

Hokkien woman: Yes, I know about the Chinese primary school near the river. But I had never been to school. When I was small I used to help my father sell "tit-bits" outside that school. I used to envy the girls who go to school and always stared at them.

Well, talk about a small world. Although I do not remember her, possibly she remembers me

because she had wished she was like me, able to go to school?

Me: Where did you used to stay in Parit Buntar?

Hokkien woman: Actually along the river, 2 miles away from the Chinese primary school

Me: You are now staying in this condo?

Hokkien woman: Yes, I am staying with my daughter, looking after her 2 children.

Hokkien woman: You know, I brought up my 2 children all on my own. When my son, the second child was only 1 month old, my husband left me for another woman and never came back. I had to do all sorts of odd jobs to buy milk for the 2 children. I carried my son on my back and washed clothes for people. I also washed houses and offices, sold curry puffs and "kuehs". I put my son on my father's bicycle and cycled into the villages to prick the ears of little girls for 50 sen per child. I also used to sew and would sew until 2 or 3 am in order to earn some money to pay their school fees. You know, I worked and toiled for 25 years. Now they are big.

When she was telling me her life story, she was smiling all the time. I think she was not complaining, she was just so proud of her own ability to overcome life's harsh challenges.

I brought up my 3 kids singlehandedly too. But compared to her, my experience may have been a walk in the park, maybe along a tough mudder course, slippery at times but generally okay.

At the end of the day both she and me can put on our broadest smiles.