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Saturday, March 13, 2010

My Grandma, my Protection and Inspiration


I went to see a doctor in my neighbood about my swollen eye. At the end of the session I ended up with a worse swollen eye, having been moved to tears.

Somehow, he told me about his Grandma who took under her care all her 6 grandchildren as well as her depressed daughter-in-law when her son died at the age of 34 from a heart attack. And Grandma was not rich. Infact she was quite poor, tapping rubber for a living in Banting Selangor. They lived in a small hut in a rubber plantation. Grandma woke up at 4 am to tap rubber. Grandma was a very strict disciplinarian. When she realized that her grandchildren were watching too much TV instead of studying, she chose not to repair the TV when it broke down. Grandma quietly cried to herself alot of times at the riverside where she brought her youngest grandson for evening strolls. But she was tough. Today all her 6 grandchildren are professionals, the eldest a Public Prosecutor and the youngest the doctor in my neighbourhood, who told me "My Grandma is illiterate. But she is my protection and my inspiration". Grandma is now 86, still living in Banting.

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Some happy memories 15.7.2007


Sister Wan Lan in her splendorous Kebaya nyonya

Zuraida, my Secretary who was with me for 6 years when I was still working in the Government, accompanied by her son

My sister Wan Lan on the extreme left standing with me and my closest friends of several decades (Meilina to my left, Esah sitting left and Norhayati sitting right)

Tan Sri Arshad and Tan Sri Shahrizaila arriving for the reception

Brother-inlaw Ching

Nephew Meng, his girlfriend Jane, Sister Wan Lan and good friend Ivy helping out with guest registration

Offering tea to grandfather Woon Sang Chew, as a mark of love and respect

My good friends Prof Noor Hadjar from UiTM and Hearry from MAS

The entrance to the hall

me in the middle and cousin in law Anita Woon

Fedelia and her best friends, Yin Lee and Amalia, the three pretty flower girls

Daughter Fedelia in a pensive mood

The main Table

The pelamin

Whimsical flower girl niece Sara

Nephew Meng and girlfriend Jane

Good friend Wan Zawiah's daughter Nadia contributing a song

My three children L-R: Second son Farouk, only daughter and youngest Fedelia and elder son Feris