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Friday, October 9, 2009

Fairness and being fair


Today the local radio station discussed the concept of fairness and being fair. At the end of the discussion, the moderator concluded that whatever the definition of "fairness", what is considered 'fair" to one may appear completely 'unfair" to others. This reminded me of an incident that happened to me many years ago when I was much much younger.

Many years ago when I sat for an examination while a sophomore in a local university, I made an honest mistake. Instead of anwering 3 questions out of 5 as required by the examination paper, I misread the instructions and answered only 2 questions out of 5. When I realized my mistake at the end of the examination I was frantic. I went to the lecturer and told her my problem and requested for a little bit extra time to answer the thrid question. I remember her name was Mavis Puthuchery. After listening to me, She said she will look at the quality of my answers for the 2 questions and she will decide whether to mark me based on 2 questions or 3. When the results were published after 1 month, to my delight, she had given me an "A". When my friends knew this, they remarked "Oh! So unfair!". Thank you Mavis Puthuchery for being fair.

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Some happy memories 15.7.2007


Sister Wan Lan in her splendorous Kebaya nyonya

Zuraida, my Secretary who was with me for 6 years when I was still working in the Government, accompanied by her son

My sister Wan Lan on the extreme left standing with me and my closest friends of several decades (Meilina to my left, Esah sitting left and Norhayati sitting right)

Tan Sri Arshad and Tan Sri Shahrizaila arriving for the reception

Brother-inlaw Ching

Nephew Meng, his girlfriend Jane, Sister Wan Lan and good friend Ivy helping out with guest registration

Offering tea to grandfather Woon Sang Chew, as a mark of love and respect

My good friends Prof Noor Hadjar from UiTM and Hearry from MAS

The entrance to the hall

me in the middle and cousin in law Anita Woon

Fedelia and her best friends, Yin Lee and Amalia, the three pretty flower girls

Daughter Fedelia in a pensive mood

The main Table

The pelamin

Whimsical flower girl niece Sara

Nephew Meng and girlfriend Jane

Good friend Wan Zawiah's daughter Nadia contributing a song

My three children L-R: Second son Farouk, only daughter and youngest Fedelia and elder son Feris