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Tuesday, January 6, 2009

True friends


When I was in the university in the late 60s -early 70s, every semester break, I used to work with the Statistics Department (fixed up by our neighbour opposite, Mr Loh), as an enumerator. I still remember the work was quite mechanical, i.e. transfering population statistics into codes. In the course of this semester breaks job, I got close to a girl working full time for the Statistics Department, Miss lim Lan Nee. After I started working, in one of my postings in late 1970s, I was working in the Ministry of Housing, located next to the Statistics Department. That was when I met up with Lan Nee again and we socialised occasionally. I was relocated to the MOH HQ in 1979 and we lost touch. One week ago she managed to locate me and we met up today in the Mid valley, after nearly 30 years. She was thrilled to see me, as warm as before, just like I remebered her.

We caught up on lost times, filling each other up on what had happened in our lives since then. We both realized so many things had happened. She battled ovarian cancer in the early 80s when her son was only 8, had a hysterectomy, had chemo which caused her to lose all her hair and survived. Now her son is 36 and just got married last month to a girl from Japan. She is fully recovered and although now in her 60s she is looking good with a full crop of hair. I told her about the personal adjustments in my life. We parted with the promise to meet agin.

Many friends will walk in and out of your life but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart - Eleanor Roosevelt

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Some happy memories 15.7.2007


Sister Wan Lan in her splendorous Kebaya nyonya

Zuraida, my Secretary who was with me for 6 years when I was still working in the Government, accompanied by her son

My sister Wan Lan on the extreme left standing with me and my closest friends of several decades (Meilina to my left, Esah sitting left and Norhayati sitting right)

Tan Sri Arshad and Tan Sri Shahrizaila arriving for the reception

Brother-inlaw Ching

Nephew Meng, his girlfriend Jane, Sister Wan Lan and good friend Ivy helping out with guest registration

Offering tea to grandfather Woon Sang Chew, as a mark of love and respect

My good friends Prof Noor Hadjar from UiTM and Hearry from MAS

The entrance to the hall

me in the middle and cousin in law Anita Woon

Fedelia and her best friends, Yin Lee and Amalia, the three pretty flower girls

Daughter Fedelia in a pensive mood

The main Table

The pelamin

Whimsical flower girl niece Sara

Nephew Meng and girlfriend Jane

Good friend Wan Zawiah's daughter Nadia contributing a song

My three children L-R: Second son Farouk, only daughter and youngest Fedelia and elder son Feris